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fuwaprince:

US Helplines:

• Depression Hotline: 1-630-482-9696
• Suicide Hotline: 1-800-784-8433
• LifeLine: 1-800-273-8255
• Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386
• Sexuality Support: 1-800-246-7743
• Eating Disorders Hotline: 1-847-831-3438
• Rape and Sexual Assault: 1-800-656-4673
• Grief Support: 1-650-321-5272
• Runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000
• Exhale: After Abortion Hotline/Pro-Voice: 1-866-4394253
• Child Abuse: 1-800-422-4453

UK Helplines:

• Samaritans (for any problem): 08457909090 e-mail jo@samaritans.org
• Childline (for anyone under 18 with any problem): 08001111
• Mind infoline (mental health information): 0300 123 3393 e-mail: info@mind.org.uk
• Mind legal advice (for people who need mental-health related legal advice): 0300 466 6463 legal@mind.org.uk
• b-eat eating disorder support: 0845 634 14 14 (only open Mon-Fri 10.30am-8.30pm and Saturday 1pm-4.30pm) e-mail: help@b-eat.co.uk
• b-eat youthline (for under 25’s with eating disorders): 08456347650 (open Mon-Fri 4.30pm - 8.30pm, Saturday 1pm-4.30pm)
• Cruse Bereavement Care: 08444779400 e-mail: helpline@cruse.org.uk
• Frank (information and advice on drugs): 0800776600
• Drinkline: 0800 9178282
• Rape Crisis England & Wales: 0808 802 9999 1(open 2 - 2.30pm 7 - 9.30pm) e-mail info@rapecrisis.org.uk
• Rape Crisis Scotland: 08088 01 03 02 every day, 6pm to midnight
• India Self Harm Hotline: 00 08001006614
• India Suicide Helpline: 022-27546669
• Kids Help Phone (Canada): 1-800-668-6868

FREE 24/7 suicide hotlines:

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• Barbados: 429-9999
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• Spain: 91-459-00-50
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ALWAYS REBLOG WHEN YOU SEE SOMETHING LIKE THIS PLEASE; ITS SO MUCH MORE THAN IMPORTANT TO PEOPLE. IT MEANS EVERYTHING TO SOMEBODY AND EVEN THOUGH YOU MIGHT NOT SEE THIS IN THE SAME LIGHT, SOMEONE MIGHT. INFACT YOU REBLOGGING THIS COULD STOP SOMEONE TAKING THEIR LIFE TONIGHT.

ryanzyro:

thatotherenglishguy:

mistersbeard:

mistersbeard:

You end it. Today. Right now.

Call the police and tell them what happened. Tell them you need someone to come. Request a female officer if possible. If he lives there have them meet you at the McDonald’s or whatever near by. Have a good friend over to be by your side. (It’s not like they don’t know)

Be brave. Be bold. Tell them everything. Get this scumbag off the streets. Press charges. Prosecute to the full extent of the law. Show up to court with no regrets. Get the restraining order. Begin your new life.

If this happens and you can’t escape, tell him you’re hungry. You are going to order a pizza.

Then dial 911.

Tell them you need a pizza to your house as fast as possible. They will know what’s happening and ask you questions.

Be normal. Yes, no… your name.. address… he won’t know it’s the police on the other end. Tell them to hurry because your boyfriends hungry. He will never know what’s about to hit him when that “pizza” shows up and you answer the door.

Open the door and immediately tell them to come in. That gives them consent to enter…. and end your nightmare.

I’ll stop reblogging this when wanna be douchebag Dom’s who attended the 50 shades of grey school of bdsm all gather in a huge crowd and fall off a cliff onto a bed of spikes covered in rubbing alcohol and menthol.

Reblogging for 100% truth

Consent. Consent. Consent.
Without consent it is rape. Without consent, it is abuse.
Without consent, they should burn.

lilrayosun:

gigglefuck:

inkedandproudinfidel:

turtrussel:

oh-dear-discrimination:

martytries:

exopolitico:

tabbitcha:

sum-mermaiid:

anti-feminist-pug:

Imagine that your partner has been hitting you. Yelling at you. You’ve been married for a few years, you’re both in your 30s, you have a little daughter, and everything you do seems to be wrong. You’ve been made fun of, mocked and belittled by your partner. 

But you need them, because you can’t take another failed relationship. You can’t be alone again, and they’ve got you convinced that all the beatings and scratches and scrapes are your fault.

You tell your friends and they laugh. No matter how many bruises or cuts you show them, it’s still your fault, so you hide them. You feel trapped, but you don’t feel like you can escape. You’re convinced that you’re just locking yourself in.

And you see online one day an article. Someone else went through what you have. They got the cuts, the bruises, the scratches. You see that here is hope and freedom from these beatings. The physical and emotional pain can go away, there is someone there to help!

So you write down a list of 10 abuse victim hotlines, for people being abused. And you call them one by one.

If you were a man:

6 of those hotlines would refuse to help because of your gender.

3 of those hotlines would refer you to or give you a number to a hotline dealing with people that abuse and are looking to stop.

1 of those hotlines would help.

Out of those 10, 2 of those would also laugh at you or say you deserved it.

If you were a woman:

10 of those hotlines would help.

Abuse is very scary, but what seems scarier to you; being abused, reaching out and getting the help you need, or being abused, reaching out and getting laughed and turned away over 60% of the time because of who you are?

Only 8% of men who call abuse hotlines find them ‘very helpful’ and get the assistance they need.

Women can abuse. Men can be abused. Men need equality and help too.

Wtf is this trash lol

how is this trash?

All they could say is “this is trash” because this study was written and published by a woman with a PhD and is comprehensive and heavily sourced.

Just to add some quotes found in the study from men who tried to seek help:

• They laughed at me and told me I must have done something to deserve it if it happened at all.

• They asked how much I weighed and how much she weighed and then hung up on me…I was told by this agency that I was full of BS.

• They accused me of trying to hide my “abuse” of her by claiming to be a victim, and they said that I was nothing more than a wimp.

• They didn’t really listen to what I said. They assumed that all abusers are men and said that I must accept that I was the abuser. They ridiculed me for not leaving my wife, ignoring the issues about what I would need to do to protect my six children and care for them.

And maybe the saddest one: They just laughed and hung up the phone.

Man can be abused too , this is not trash

My father had to suffer hell for years , and he ended up in hopsital too because of my mother . So don’t you dare to say that a man can’t suffer from abuse because that’s bullshit. It happens , it can happen to everyone . And the fact that people are not willing to help is just sick 

This breaks my heart.

The only people that call it trash are trash themselves.

“male privilege”

this has crossed my dash several times over the last month. I’ve stayed silent.

I went through this in my first marriage. back in the 1990′s. There were no hotlines that would take Male calls. I lost a Wonderful dog to being kicked across the room, knowing it would devastate me, the Police refused to take the report “You need to Man up and handle your business”

3 years after I finally pulled myself up and walked out, I was at work and got a phone call from my best friend’s Mom. Which wasn’t completely odd, Carol called me all the time. I answered and I immediately knew the call wasn’t good. Chris, one of my closest male friends growing up was in a coma and prognosis wasn’t good. His wife had had gone to the kitchen in the middle of the night and got a cast iron skillet and beat him in the head so badly, the hospital initially couldn’t even confirm his identity. Why was she mad? direct quote from the police report  “that worthless fucker wouldn’t let me go shopping this weekend”. 

That “worthless fucker” worked 2-3 jobs and adored and doted over this vile woman. 

Its real and its worthy of discussing it.

~R.

Amen! (Standing on my soapbox next to you and clapping)

If you as my followers can’t reblog the hell out of this then please just fucking unfollow me. I come here to Tumblr Town everyday, off and on just like the rest of you kinky, perverted, wonderful, funny, bitchy, lonely, people. Yes, I said lonely for you bitchy little girls and boys in the back who claim to be “happy and strong independent single people” but are here, right now reading this at whatever fucking time it is in your day, just like the rest of us lonely for whatever reason Tumblr Peeps. And I see Everyone and the things you all post. So I’m pretty sure NO ONE is going to let me down. I had so much more typed out but decided that I would save it. (Chuckling) THE POINT IS JUST FUCKING READ THIS AND REBLOG THE DAMN THING PLEASE. AND THANK YOU ❤✌~C

• ***If you heart this and don’t reblog…I will know. And imagine me saying this in Darth Vaders voice too please, cuz I’m gonna blow your ass up with my Death Star. For true. And I’m only kinda joking. ✌~C

cuteghovl:

If you’re suffering from depression and are looking for a sign to not go through with ending your life, this is it. This is the sign. We care.

If you see this on your dash, reblog it. You could save a life.

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whocaresimjustasimblr:

cuteghovl:

If you’re suffering from depression and are looking for a sign to not go through with ending your life, this is it. This is the sign. We care.

If you see this on your dash, reblog it. You could save a life.

Thank you…

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queen-nubiana:

The first transgender suicide hotline is now up and running in the U.S. You can reach Trans Lifeline at 877-565-8860.

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Sometimes I wish I could just curl up into a ball and disappear

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slutbrat:

Hi I luv @cumdolli

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